I've spent the past few months working with my friend Kurt who is pastor of Spiritual Formation at our church. Kurt has dedicated his ministry efforts to stemming the terrifying trend of children of "believing" parents walking away from the faith their parents embrace.
The bottom line amounts to this: are parents being intentional in teaching their children or are they charging the church with the duty to impart the truths of our faith? Of course there are a host of assumptions to be made however a couple of scenarios exist and the second, in my opinion, is the most tragic...yet preventable.
Scenario #1 would be that a parent models their faith, does everything they can to provide their child with a firm Christian foundation, a biblical worldview - still, the child willfully walks away from the faith.
Scenario #2 follows where the parent relies solely on the church to provide their child with a firm Christian foundation and biblical worldview. The parent neglects the instruction to "Train up the child..." and hopes for the best with what Sunday School can impart.
I've spent a great deal of time thinking about this pandemic-esque trend and have recently had the unfortunate experience of seeing the results from scenario #2. A few weeks ago while watching Saturday Night Live, I found myself enjoying the musical stylings of Kings of Leon.
I bought their latest album and noted their "thanks to God" in the liner notes. We all know that could mean anything or nothing but I began to notice some spiritual ponderings in their lyrics.
Intrigued, I began reading interviews with the lead singer which spoke of he and his brothers (the band is made up of three brothers and one cousin) being raised by a pastor.
According to all accounts, their father was a largely successful and highly sought after pastor who travelled all over spreading the good news of the Gospel.
You don't have to read or listen to too much of Kings of Leon to taste the pain and hopelessness with which they wrestle.
How does this happen? How can the children of a Christian "mega-star" have absolutely no clue about the hope of which their father spoke? How can they be so ignorant of the basics of the faith? How can they not know that they are loved?
"...Jesus don't love me, no one ever carried my load, I'm too young to feel this old..." from the song Cold Desert
Are you pouring your hope into your children?